How to use bondage for a woman?

Bondage sex is not necessarily about pain and humiliation. Bondage can also be used for gentle leisurely intimacy. The main savor here is the feeling of complete power in the dominant and helplessness in the "slave". In order for the game to bring pleasure to each partner, they should previously discuss all the details of the upcoming BDSM-session. If the mistress does not feel the desire to submit, it is worth postponing the entertainment - until the moment in the couple does not grow trust so much that the partner wants to fully give herself into the hands of a man.

How to use bondage for a woman?

First of all, it is necessary to come up with a stop word. It is desirable that it was not related to sex - for example, "car", "dog" or simply "enough". This word should be used in extreme cases - if the woman feels panic or can no longer tolerate pain and humiliation. As soon as the dominant hears the stop word, he instantly stops all actions of a sexual nature and releases the partner from her restraints.

1. It is desirable to start a sexual game with binding with foreplay. Now we are not talking about experienced adherents of BDSM, but about those who are just trying themselves in this art. Partners can take a shower or bask in the bathtub, give each other a massage, kiss and caress. If the dominant wants to make a surprise to his girlfriend, at an unexpected moment offering to put on handcuffs or set the body for entanglement with ropes, it is necessary to relax her and excite her so that she herself is eager to give herself to the man in any way.

2. After light caresses should move to active, causing a passionate desire for intimacy. A man can make a partner quality cunnilingus, from which she will fly to the heavens of sensual pleasure (of course, if the bondage allows unobstructed caressing of the genitals). But the tongue can quickly get tired, but sex toys allow you to stimulate the erogenous zones for as long as you want. It is best to use a clitoral stimulator or vibrator. Some prefer a vibro bullet, which is inserted into the vagina and brings a woman a sea of sweet sensations.

3. Next comes the time to apply bondage. The "slave" is already prepared and will not grumble. The man fastens her hands with handcuffs behind her back or uses ropes to fix them on her wrists. If the mistress does not resist, and her body is pliable and ready for intense caresses, handcuffs can be attached to the back of the bed, putting the partner on her stomach. For the dominant's convenience, it is desirable to fix the legs of the "slave" with the help of special leggings.

4. Bondage can be different, it all depends on the fantasy of the man and the flexibility of his girlfriend. Erotic variant - the dominant puts on the mistress handcuffs and greaves and connects them with each other. The woman finds herself in a helpless position, and all her intimate parts of the body - in full accessibility for the partner. If the "slave" put a mask over the eyes and a collar around the neck, the sensations of both will become even sharper. Blindfolded sex plunges into the abyss of passion, giving the man the pleasure of complete power over the partner.

BDSM bondage and erotic games

Caress the bound mistress can be any convenient way, but it is desirable to use stimulation, which she likes (unless, of course, the "slave" herself does not ask for humiliation and discomfort). A vibrating sex toy should be applied to the clitoris, but make sure that the partner does not cum before time. The longer to keep the woman in a preorgasmic state, the brighter and longer will be the orgasm itself. In addition, the dominant, watching the "slave" burning with desire, will be able to experience psychological satisfaction from her "torment".

1. One clitoral stimulator is clearly not enough if the partners want to get the maximum erotic bliss. Bondage, as a rule, allows you to get to any sensitive point on a woman's body. The genitals are not the only such place. You can hang clamps on the nipples or apply a vibro bullet to them, as well as massage the lower abdomen and inner thighs with your hands.

2. The easiest way to give a woman sweet sensations is to use a vibrator or a dildo. The sex toy should be pressed on the G-spot, located on the front wall of the vagina. You can do it just with your fingers, but in this case the man will have to sweat. From the impact on the G-spot can be a powerful orgasm. If the dominant does not want the "slave" to cum until he enters her, he should be careful not to stimulate sensitive points too intensely.

3. It is possible to affect not only the vagina and clitoris, but also the anus area. For anal stimulation are designed special sex toys in the form of a plug or phallus. There are curved and ribbed models. For the first time, a small-sized anal plug is suitable. Immerse it in the anus should be carefully, using a large amount of lubricant. Anal sex - an ideal option for games in BDSM style, as it gives the man to feel absolute power over the partner, especially if bondage is used. The intimate plug can be left inside, then vaginal sex will bring more pleasant sensations - the vagina will become much narrower.

4. Having played enough with the "slave" and giving her a lot of fantastic sensations, the dominant can think about himself. Oral sex with a bound woman - a gorgeous entertainment for a lover of S&M. You can enter the mouth of the "slave" as deeply as you want, ordering her to tolerate and try to get pleasure. Often adherents of BDSM use mouth dilators, which unload the jaws of the "receiving party" and allow the "dominant" to enjoy oral sex for a long time.

In one session, the dominant can change the position of the girlfriend using ropes and handcuffs. Changing positions will allow the woman to feel a diverse range of sweet emotions. At the end of the erotic game, if the partners have not yet cum, you can finally dive into the waves of sexual ecstasy. It does not matter whether the penetration will be vaginal or anal, the main thing is that the man should not forget who is dominant here, so as not to spoil the impression of hard sex.

Rules of safe bondage for a woman

The dominant is obliged to monitor the condition of the partner to prevent injuries and mutilations. Bound saba (sabmissive), if she has not only her hands fixed, can not keep her balance, so you can not force her to get out of bed and move around. But even if the "slave" is only handcuffed, if she falls, she is not able to help herself, so the dominant must support the girlfriend if the hard sex takes place standing or sitting.

Important: No ropes should be applied to the neck area. If knots are improperly tightened, this can cause strangulation. There are special collars for the neck, which can be purchased in any sex shop. Ropes and straps should not squeeze a woman's breasts and abdominal area.

The duration of stay in a bound state is ideally 30 minutes. If the "slave" is fixed in an uncomfortable position, this time should be reduced. Bondage is not recommended for people with health problems - low or high blood pressure, a tendency to panic attacks, with disorders of blood circulation in the body.

Bondage for a woman - a great way to give her a lot of extravagant emotions. This variant of sexual play is ideal for those who like variety in bed and are not afraid to experiment. The ability of the partner to feel the girlfriend - the main condition for safe BDSM. And the increase in sensitivity and the ability to make orgasms more vivid - a pleasant bonus for fans of unusual intimacy.